tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post2406733999419892763..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : RebuildingMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-77980070559817696432010-04-26T11:17:13.340-07:002010-04-26T11:17:13.340-07:00What resonates with me is the idea of keeping thin...What resonates with me is the idea of keeping things the same for the kids and worrying about how the inevitable change will affect them. I have remained a stay-at-home mom since my husband died a year ago, but the time approaches when I will have to return to work full time. How will I cope? How will my kids respond? I am both frightened and excited by the possibilities that lay before me.Jenniferhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04446381968763132932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-40923669228197691152010-04-26T10:34:05.490-07:002010-04-26T10:34:05.490-07:00I am thinking of moving too, its been 13 months si...I am thinking of moving too, its been 13 months since I lost my husband. I can't bear the thought of going through his stuff. My mother-in-law has offered, but I don't want anyone else to go through his stuff either. What will I do? I hope I will eventually be able to "deal" with it too. Thank you for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-51899077516358726412010-04-26T08:09:22.512-07:002010-04-26T08:09:22.512-07:00When I moved three years ago, I had to go through ...When I moved three years ago, I had to go through everything I shoved in the basement over the course of several years b/c out of sight was easier on the mind. Eventually, everything has to be dealt with and it does hurt. You will get through it. You will rebuild. Establish new routines. It'll be okay. Things do get better.anniehttp://anniegirl1138.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-37761258876368850192010-04-25T14:12:25.609-07:002010-04-25T14:12:25.609-07:00This really resonates with me. Only two months aft...This really resonates with me. Only two months after my husband died, I'm faced with leaving the apartment we shared together. I simply can't afford to stay here. Every time I start to sort through his/our/my things, I break down. It's not going to be easy. But it helps to find people who are walking this same dark path, so I thank you for sharing.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com