tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post2738565611085743664..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Clean or DirtyMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-73788846685130673662014-03-03T10:59:53.665-08:002014-03-03T10:59:53.665-08:00I use the same concept only with different names: ...I use the same concept only with different names: Healing pain and Infected pain.<br />Once again I've learned that I am not alone...Janicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13119305752920928805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-74518555491894055902014-03-03T08:20:09.120-08:002014-03-03T08:20:09.120-08:00Oh i really loved this post. I have noticed that d...Oh i really loved this post. I have noticed that difference since my dad died in 2009, i had a lot of guilt with him. And eventually i started to notice the two different kinds, but i never have heard it described as clean and dirty pain. I really love that. The dirty pain definitely complicates trying to work through and feel the clean pain. I'm getting better all the time at not listening to the dirty pain when it comes up. for me, it's been a like graduate school for self love. The more i love and respect myself, the more powerful a gatekeeper i have become to saying no to the dirty pain. <br /><br />Thanks for sharing this one today… i needed it!Arthelihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11898065902404091173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-68970134899180605412014-03-03T07:50:18.939-08:002014-03-03T07:50:18.939-08:00Hi Cassie,
I have been reading widows voice for a...Hi Cassie,<br /><br />I have been reading widows voice for almost four years now since Andrew died.......every time new writers come on board I get worried that they won't be as good as the ones who leave.....every time I am so very, very wrong......I have so much dirty pain from the month Andrew was in the hospital after his accident but not until today had I ever heard the term. Thank you all for sharing yourselves with us......you will never know how much you help.....MaureenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com