tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post2942914538591211745..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : The Small StuffMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-51944547494762892912010-12-08T09:32:38.015-08:002010-12-08T09:32:38.015-08:00I also think about all the stupid things my husban...I also think about all the stupid things my husband and I fought about. Ira died 8 mos. after a heart transplant at UCLA just 1 yr and 3 mos. ago. His favorite saying was "Be like a rock, let the water wash over you." What could be a better message to us now?Gale Schlesingernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-37815639578506600302010-12-08T01:53:05.568-08:002010-12-08T01:53:05.568-08:00I have to say that little things bother me less, b...I have to say that little things bother me less, because I think of how many times I fought with my love one about them, when now I wish he were here to do those same annoying things! I guess they go hand in hand with appreciateing all of the little things I use to take for granted!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-34925552063481181662010-12-07T19:09:09.631-08:002010-12-07T19:09:09.631-08:00It is a wonderful way to walk through life. A way...It is a wonderful way to walk through life. A way my husband tried to teach me all the time...I wish I got the hang of it before I had to end up with out him. If anything I am who he wanted to help me be now......Miah Jane's Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06216367202462845948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-84867856272891004312010-12-07T12:41:57.312-08:002010-12-07T12:41:57.312-08:00I certainly sweat the small stuff...still...but I ...I certainly sweat the small stuff...still...but I see that it is only at certain times. Just today, instead of taking a step back when my Mom offered to have one of her attorneys look over my foundation's website for personal liability/intellectual liability, I got so angry and upset. All I had asked her to do is look at the new banner on the site...I was excited about how it was coming together but at the same time hating the reason that I was doing the foundation. I wanted so bad to tell my husband about it. But I can't. It's those times where I find myself struggling with not getting angry and really really sweating the small stuff. <br /><br />I'll work on that later.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-57607291134572448742010-12-07T11:11:12.692-08:002010-12-07T11:11:12.692-08:00I'm right there with you. I don't get anno...I'm right there with you. I don't get annoyed at anything anymore unless it is something really outrageous. Losing my husband sure has taught me what is and isn't important. I just wish I could have learned this in a different way.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com