tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post3461288382820213732..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Mini-meMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-80990761346569234472011-10-26T06:46:01.274-07:002011-10-26T06:46:01.274-07:00I'm so glad you posted this. It made some thi...I'm so glad you posted this. It made some things make a lot more sense and me, perhaps, a bit more empathic. Still hurts though.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-71573320863194674022011-10-25T18:19:44.580-07:002011-10-25T18:19:44.580-07:00msgwife - i have thought exactly that a hundred ti...msgwife - i have thought exactly that a hundred times...what a luxury to be able to avoid a person or two and not deal with the loss. Must be nice to hide sometimes.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-17773695211269227352011-10-25T14:27:53.497-07:002011-10-25T14:27:53.497-07:00WOW this is so true. My brother in laws don't ...WOW this is so true. My brother in laws don't talk to me anymore and I spoke to my counselor about it. Then when I look at my life I realized that a lot of stuff that should happen doesn't because I make people feel sad. They miss my husband as well, and I just bring that feeling up front where they have to deal with it. It's a little bit funny to think about it when we are the ones who have lost the most, our husbands, fathers. What surprises me is how others would rather sweep the loss under the carpet and not deal with it, and yet we deal with it every day of our lives. It just goes to show you who is stronger in life. We are, the ones who have lost the most. I do not mean to offend anyone, I wrote this quickly and I may have expressed myself in a manner that others would not appreciate. If you are one of those I'm sorry but the words just aren't there yet. Maybe tomorrow.MSGWifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01641197633697244394noreply@blogger.com