tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post4204749626889615540..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Driving home.Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-91539978041300806422010-12-06T16:03:37.149-08:002010-12-06T16:03:37.149-08:00psst - I don't expect you to be anything other...psst - I don't expect you to be anything other than you are at any given moment. I can come out there and growl menacingly at anyone who knocks on your new door thinking it's all good now. You know, if you need the growling door guard.meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10064483599165161879noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-57124750235347831032010-12-06T15:07:27.241-08:002010-12-06T15:07:27.241-08:00The pressure cooker of more change is bound to nee...The pressure cooker of more change is bound to need a release of tears. And there's nothing like a husband's _________ (fill in the name of random belonging) to bring those tears to the surface. I'm sure that your new house will feel like home soon. Wishing you peace as you get settled in your beautiful new home. <br />Love DebDebbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13743446066024389563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-5904190507275670362010-12-06T09:16:31.049-08:002010-12-06T09:16:31.049-08:00oh Dan, I wish I could have sat beside you (and cr...oh Dan, I wish I could have sat beside you (and cried with you no doubt)... Boo xBoohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10695496303699631884noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-27894301448705144002010-12-06T07:09:39.018-08:002010-12-06T07:09:39.018-08:00Moving on. Not easy. Be good to yourself. Virtual...Moving on. Not easy. Be good to yourself. Virtual hugs come your way!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-58373026573518449722010-12-06T06:27:21.618-08:002010-12-06T06:27:21.618-08:00I have been painting and sprucing my house up to p...I have been painting and sprucing my house up to put on the market. I have many boxes packed. I have been frozen--unable to make the next step of listing it. This was our house and my husband died in his sleep here. I know it will be gut wrenching to lock the door the last time. Congratulations on having the courage to move on.<br />Your new place is just a house until you make memories there--birthdays, dinners, etc. So don't let the emptiness right now throw you.<br />Soon it will be your home. SandyAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-37662977024448056352010-12-06T05:24:47.947-08:002010-12-06T05:24:47.947-08:00Dan, so many times over the last year I have found...Dan, so many times over the last year I have found myself in the same postion. Everything is getting better and I should feel very happy and I do for most of the time. Like yesterday, I decided that it was time for me to have my own life. So I had joined a single group to make new friends. Went to my first event. Actually had fun and met some nice people. But later that night before failing to sleep, I cried because although I had fun with the new people. It was not what I really want. I wanted to be married to the man I expect to spend the rest of my life with. So many times, I am in a situation that I want to share with him, but I know I no longer can and wonder if that feeling will ever end. I think as with everything else it will lessen with time, but not be completely gone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-1805661646658236842010-12-06T00:34:00.886-08:002010-12-06T00:34:00.886-08:00Dan, I feel your pain. That was really powerful. ...Dan, I feel your pain. That was really powerful. Thinking of you.<br />MariaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com