tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post4255736263382148664..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : MenMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-73378025950453907882010-05-23T21:57:37.472-07:002010-05-23T21:57:37.472-07:00Love this post.Love this post.Andrea Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15189207912039017496noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-10555005858083124382010-05-23T08:56:38.796-07:002010-05-23T08:56:38.796-07:00YES! I love it, especially the line "His love...YES! I love it, especially the line "His love for me oozes out of me and I morph into everything he thought I was." My loss is still new and fresh (my husband died on March 3), but I get occasional glimmers of possibility for Life After Mike, and I hear some of that possibility echoing in your words here.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-55229033674924262972010-05-23T08:44:22.478-07:002010-05-23T08:44:22.478-07:00Kim... I LOVE this post... I am 46, and 1 year (as...Kim... I LOVE this post... I am 46, and 1 year (as of yesterday) into widowhood. I just began 'casually dating' a man a couple of weeks ago... and it's funny, but I have TONS more confidence in myself now (as a 46 yr old, overweight, widow) than I did when I dated this same man at 16 (okay, not a good comparison since I WAS only 16, but nonetheless)... My LH, 'My Rick', thought that the moon and sun rose and set upon me... he believed in me wholeheartedly... and I believe that I carry HIS confidence in me WITH ME when I'm out facing the world... I know that he smiles when he sees me walking, head held high... I believe that I, too, am a "good catch"... and I cannot 'settle'... Thank you for helping me to remember that! ~ Blessings to you, DeNeceDeNecenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-59799086422994465442010-05-23T06:17:54.545-07:002010-05-23T06:17:54.545-07:00I love men too. I miss the conversation, company, ...I love men too. I miss the conversation, company, and touch of a man. Guilt washes over me for even making that statement, as I haven't quite reached the one year mark yet and I am beginning to think about the possibility of future relationships. I look forward to having a man in my life again. There. I said it.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com