tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post4387303295876139248..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : It's Not the Same ....Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-73557200084225459932010-02-10T21:03:12.966-08:002010-02-10T21:03:12.966-08:00I was so touched by your post... I wish that I cou...I was so touched by your post... I wish that I could feel that it's "okay"... except that right now (8.5 months post my husband-of-21-years death), I am NOT okay with the differences in myself or my life... I really really miss the routine, the sameness, and the comfort that came from KNOWING what my life was all about with him. I'm in a fog, every day. I'm certainly not "living", but I want to (NO, I NEED to) learn how... I need to learn "who" I am if I am not 'My Rick's' wife...? This question haunts me... and I yearn to find the answer.DeNecenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-74606597619926017302010-02-04T21:48:30.333-08:002010-02-04T21:48:30.333-08:00Thank you for this post. It gives me hope that som...Thank you for this post. It gives me hope that someday I will be OK with things not being the same, and the people in my life not being the same. And that it's OK if once in a while it's not OK. xoxoAndrea Reneehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15189207912039017496noreply@blogger.com