tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post4850117948092172302..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Turning Back the ClockMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-85611956628717134152015-03-03T13:12:54.127-08:002015-03-03T13:12:54.127-08:00Thanks Mark. I think we were a good match, and we ...Thanks Mark. I think we were a good match, and we would have continued to help each other grow. It did feel like magic. XxTricia Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13133585754425129198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-63443586499520864992015-03-03T13:11:09.420-08:002015-03-03T13:11:09.420-08:00Thank you for your beautiful words. I like to help...Thank you for your beautiful words. I like to help people know Stan and it helps me to remember him in this way.Tricia Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13133585754425129198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-28693045862647016872015-03-02T16:56:49.071-08:002015-03-02T16:56:49.071-08:00I wish you had known Stan before, or had met him s...I wish you had known Stan before, or had met him sooner, or had been together with him longer. The picture you paint of him is endearing, and it's no wonder why you miss him so. I have no doubt that as you think yourself as lucky for having met him, he thought himself lucky for meeting you. Everything you were met everything he was, and it sounds like there was magic.Mark Liebenowhttp://widowersgrief.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-65911623437346704692015-03-02T13:44:29.684-08:002015-03-02T13:44:29.684-08:00Dear Tricia,
the ache in your heart, that one tha...Dear Tricia,<br /><br />the ache in your heart, that one that so wishes you could have met your Stan sooner so you could have loved him longer must be so poignantly painful . I am so sorry you didn't have more time together with that gorgeous, instantaneous love you shared. that he died so suddenly only adds such a decimating layer of grief.<br /><br />thank you for sharing that darling little boy photo of Stan, and for letting us know more about his earlier life, his passions, his accomplishments, his bigger-than-life personality, his goodness, kindness, and the transformation path you were able to help him with. the beautiful and profound love you gave him and the support he needed to move forward to be the man he wanted to be was such a gift. perhaps you will feel that same profound and beautiful gift falling upon your shoulders to give you comfort and encouragement - and that in your heart you will know it is your Stan, always loving you...always...with love that never dies. <br /><br />much love,<br /><br />Karen ooxxtccomments2013https://www.blogger.com/profile/00446394638074551345noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-51238702241179106872015-03-02T11:22:28.558-08:002015-03-02T11:22:28.558-08:00Our love was like that, too, at least for me. It f...Our love was like that, too, at least for me. It felt instantaneous. It is so hard when they die suddenly, isn't it? I am so sorry you lost the love of your life. xTricia Ellenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13133585754425129198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-68877440424729850842015-03-02T06:35:48.849-08:002015-03-02T06:35:48.849-08:00Tricia, thank you for that quote for it so resonat...Tricia, thank you for that quote for it so resonates with me.. My husband died of a sudden heart attack in June 2011 next to me in the middle of the night. We met on a Friday night and were together from that night until the night he died 16 years later. Ours was a second marriage for each of us. I knew I was in love with him in less than 24 hours. We shared an instant chemistry. I felt as if I had known him my entire life or in some other lifetime. It's been three years and I cry at any given moment. I know this hellish grief will never leave me. I will love him forever; he was the other half of me. God, I miss him so much. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com