tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post5575270134704301799..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Regrets?Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-66515215055663285242009-04-30T17:06:00.000-07:002009-04-30T17:06:00.000-07:00Lorry,
It will come. Slowly ..... oh so slowly, b...Lorry,<br />It will come. Slowly ..... oh so slowly, but surely.<br />I promise you that. Just keep putting one foot in front of the other.<br />One day at a time.<br />One moment at a time.<br />One breath at a time.<br />And know ........ that you are not alone. Keep writing, keep commenting, keep venting, keep e-mailing.<br />I, and so many others on this path, are here for you when you need us.<br />If you would like, email me and I will send you my cell phone number. I promise.<br />Love, love and more love,<br />JanineJaninehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00949809367923657970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-2598610571977396862009-04-29T16:12:00.000-07:002009-04-29T16:12:00.000-07:00Janine, I am just learning the differences in the ...Janine, I am just learning the differences in the "before" and "after" me. Right now, I don't like either, except that the "before" me had happy times and was grateful for the husband and family that she had. Now, I just count the days until the end of my time. I am glad for you that you seem to be so strong and positive in the "after" you. Maybe in time that will come for me too, but time seems to be the enemy right now. Hugs to you, LorryAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-60058502461483762972009-04-29T13:38:00.000-07:002009-04-29T13:38:00.000-07:00I am so proud of the "after Mom" too. You never ce...I am so proud of the "after Mom" too. You never cease to amaze me Janine with your compassion and love. I am so blessed to call you my friend.<br />I love you,<br />NatNatnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-918598716274001662009-04-29T13:04:00.000-07:002009-04-29T13:04:00.000-07:00Thanks for the insights and your honesty. I apprec...Thanks for the insights and your honesty. I appreciate your posts and the unique perspective you have (six children). It is good to read how you are able to have a positive perspective on the "after mom." That is something.<br /><br />JBAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-41474376991347060352009-04-29T11:19:00.000-07:002009-04-29T11:19:00.000-07:00Janine, after reading this post I would more than ...Janine, after reading this post I would more than agree with you that your regrets are outweighed by all of the positive things you have learned and are applying. I think it may be a female thing that makes us judge ourselves in light of just one thing and let it outweigh all of the other "stuff" that we do that is good and positive. I personally don't think he's getting cheated by you at all. You rock as a mom and as a person. I just read your twitter. thankful it's not growing,bummed that it's there at all. Love and hugs.Mary Louhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14828003644053286026noreply@blogger.com