tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post5894706545846778710..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : The Long CycleMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-53436201934559510392015-01-28T10:10:08.803-08:002015-01-28T10:10:08.803-08:00I agree with your shock about triggers at 3 years ...I agree with your shock about triggers at 3 years and then some. It happens to me a little less frequently, but when it does, I am brought to my knees with a searing pain that goes from 2 to 12 in seconds. A few days ago I said goodbye to my sister and her husband as they left after a visit to my house. I watched as her husband gently took her arm to help guide her through the snowy walkway. It was then, looking at the back of them walking together that triggered all my grief. I’m not expecting these triggers to go away. Maybe get further apart as the years fly by, but every now and then, something will tap into the well of grief I carry from the loss of my husband. Thanks, Kerryl for this post. Janicehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13119305752920928805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-14399975304684799892015-01-27T14:43:15.050-08:002015-01-27T14:43:15.050-08:00I'm finding 3 years is a trigger in itself…one...I'm finding 3 years is a trigger in itself…one hard year so far! thank you for sharing your story!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com