tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post620521432687665442..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Rebirth on my Birthday Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-57480666124851745462014-10-01T10:43:58.589-07:002014-10-01T10:43:58.589-07:00Happy belated birthday.
Maria O.Happy belated birthday.<br /><br />Maria O.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-42918988583808639252014-09-27T07:03:45.889-07:002014-09-27T07:03:45.889-07:00Hope you enjoyed some cake and are still celebrati...Hope you enjoyed some cake and are still celebrating. Yep, this is not the life we wanted, but it's the one we got. You're learning to take charge and go forward, wherever that may be. Thanks for sharing the tears and laughter with us. Had hoped to be there in Toronto, but selling my house has taken priority (I got an offer!). Cathynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-60841305737529329882014-09-26T22:44:42.866-07:002014-09-26T22:44:42.866-07:00Happy birthday Kelley! I hope to make it to Camp W...Happy birthday Kelley! I hope to make it to Camp Widow West one of these years and I'm sure experience will be everything everyone says it is. My husband wanted to throw me a surprise 40th birthday party but I got too antsy and planned my own celebration. I was hoping to cure the control freak in me and let him plan a spectacular 50th birthday party for me but my life changed forever when he died a month after my 45th birthday. His birthday was four days after mine so we spent our last birthdays together in the hospital. My 46th birthday was my first one in 22 years without him and it was Mother's Day as well so I forced myself to celebrate. This year (and probably every year from now on), I didn't really celebrate much. I'm still here and I know I need to move forward and live my life but it's difficult without him.<br />Have a great time in Toronto and get yourself a slice of whatever cake you like and may your candles burn as bright as the sun. Peace and blessings!<br /><br />--MarissaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-90228524437752083802014-09-26T21:40:06.134-07:002014-09-26T21:40:06.134-07:00Happy Birthday Kelley. Your words have meant so m...Happy Birthday Kelley. Your words have meant so much. You offer healing and understanding where they are so needed. I hope you are having a great time. @ Ruthie Happy Jewish New Year. Hope you have an easy fast on Yom Kippur.Tom'sRosehttp://widowsvoice-ssfl.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-65925479414367104622014-09-26T16:36:53.116-07:002014-09-26T16:36:53.116-07:00Because you can never have it said enough: Happy B...Because you can never have it said enough: Happy Birthday, Kelley Lynn! Enjoy Toronto. My dear husband and I visited there in May, 1970, and had one of our most memorable trips ever. Love and Hugs, Carol M.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-50248775703030417052014-09-26T15:25:55.822-07:002014-09-26T15:25:55.822-07:00Happy birthday Kelly!!
My birthday is on sunday - ...Happy birthday Kelly!!<br />My birthday is on sunday - I will be 28 years old and it will only be me and my 8 months old celebrating.<br />My love, his father ended his life early june, I miss him terribly.<br />I know every day is a gift and we have so much ahead of us -I will try to cherish every moment and give him an extra kiss every night.<br />If anyone wants to follow our journey:<br /><br />http://www.raisingaden.blogspot.de<br /><br />Thank you&enjoy your dayJuliana A. Poppinshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17906598819918339460noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-41146805115040420512014-09-26T13:09:51.288-07:002014-09-26T13:09:51.288-07:00Happy Birthday Kelley, You have come so far. I lov...Happy Birthday Kelley, You have come so far. I loved reading your post today and seeing how far you have come. I wish that I could have wished you a happy birthday in person. I happen to live in Toronto and was hoping to attend Camp Widow this year. However it coincides with the Jewish New Year and so the timing was not right for me. I hope to make it to the next Camp Widow. Ruthienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-22883070093740693302014-09-26T11:06:28.530-07:002014-09-26T11:06:28.530-07:00Kelly, your last two paragraphs are profound!! Fo...Kelly, your last two paragraphs are profound!! For those of us who have gotten to this part of the journey, you are so right, there are no directions, we somehow just arrive there. Thank you so much! Now enjoy your birthday and damn it, someone give this girl some cake, she deserves it!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12179900820077981263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-32214183872667164412014-09-26T10:36:36.298-07:002014-09-26T10:36:36.298-07:00Kelley,
Happy Happy Birthday! As my usual routine...Kelley,<br /><br />Happy Happy Birthday! As my usual routine on Friday morning, I read your blog post first thing and wanted to comment then but couldn't at the time. So now, a few hours later, I read it again and was pleased to see many sweet notes, comments and Birthday Wishes! Next month I will turn 53, ten days after what would have been our 28th Wedding Anniversary. My husband passed away suddenly on May 10, 2012 and I'm still dealing with issues relating to his death. But, thanks to you and the other writers on this site, I finally am starting to look forward, and not always worrying about the past. I hope you have a wonderful day!Leslie in Little Rocknoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-10045440863405862302014-09-26T09:12:53.769-07:002014-09-26T09:12:53.769-07:00Happy Birthday!
Yes, each day is a gift. And being...Happy Birthday!<br />Yes, each day is a gift. And being able to give back while grieving is not easy. <br />Not easy at all.<br />But you are doing it with flair! <br />Thank you and kudos.<br /><br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-35152628768295491762014-09-26T08:17:59.410-07:002014-09-26T08:17:59.410-07:00I love you so much… this post made me so happy and...I love you so much… this post made me so happy and so proud of you. And so so so glad that we have gotten to watch each other's journeys unfolding these past two years. You were right in your comment to my last post on here, we are SO in the same place right now. I'm so glad i have someone who understands. <br /><br />You are such an incredible person and probably out of ALL of my friends, you are the one who inspires me the most. I mean that. I love what you said about creating life… that almost made me cry. You are so right, we haven't had kids, but we HAVE created life. Thank you for that - and for everything you are and do each day. <br /><br />Now get out there and have an amazing birthday!!!!!Arthelihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11898065902404091173noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-81896281810092403352014-09-26T07:37:44.859-07:002014-09-26T07:37:44.859-07:00Once again Kelley your writing resonates with me. ...Once again Kelley your writing resonates with me. I carry on my journey building a life out of the ruins of what was. We should give ourselves some credit for our achievements. Enjoy camp.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-50661522222100104322014-09-26T07:25:06.160-07:002014-09-26T07:25:06.160-07:00Happy Birthday Kelly. I am so glad you pushed thro...Happy Birthday Kelly. I am so glad you pushed through all the aweful hard and painful work and got to a better place. I have reached that place too, and while the grief is still here, life seems possible and I have hope for the future again, instead of dreading each moment of each day.TraceyKhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14945295620915349045noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-1095825659908814812014-09-26T06:47:34.412-07:002014-09-26T06:47:34.412-07:00Hello, Happy Birthday!! A very Blessed day to u.. ...Hello, Happy Birthday!! A very Blessed day to u.. Enjoy yr journey to camp widow..1974https://www.blogger.com/profile/03452038541844071655noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-84863370903855585182014-09-26T06:00:31.480-07:002014-09-26T06:00:31.480-07:00Kelley my wife passed just before my 70 th birthda...Kelley my wife passed just before my 70 th birthday. I really looked forward celebrating that with her. The days are long, and ahead look so distant, but looking back time has moved on almost to fast. Yes I have come a long way, but a long way to go. The emptiness of decisions only made by me of what or not to do, is not satisfying, but life goes on with what you have.<br /><br /> God BlessAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-4760911998769144942014-09-26T05:28:17.550-07:002014-09-26T05:28:17.550-07:00Happy Birthday Kelley! You may never begin to fath...Happy Birthday Kelley! You may never begin to fathom how many lives you have touched on your journey to your rebirth but I will give you a hint that it is WAY more than 43!! Now go blow out some candles and make a huge wish for your rebirthday!Carolyn https://www.blogger.com/profile/00846481499430811793noreply@blogger.com