tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post6651704970305076115..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Many Me'sMichele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-45885863863108337732014-02-26T00:30:38.780-08:002014-02-26T00:30:38.780-08:00I can understand all of these comments and miss my...I can understand all of these comments and miss my husband more after 15 months than at the beginning,I tried to move on and joined a dating agency for a month!talked to a fella for a month then met him twice for coffee at midday, was thinking about having more with him when it just hit me I couldn't do it, I emailed him but he wouldn't leave it have just had 2 weeks of bombardment from him, luckily he didn't know my address, so have learned from that, but I am getting very sexual feelings suddenly don't know how to deal with them, I have bought a "friend" but not enough it's so difficult as don't want to get into a relationship yet.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00451208175046005284noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-3838322304223510152014-02-25T07:15:28.703-08:002014-02-25T07:15:28.703-08:00Cassie, you've come a long way, it sounds like...Cassie, you've come a long way, it sounds like you're seeing and feeling and loving life again, at least more than you were. Nice. We evolve with our grief, and will carry it forward. It's always gonna be there, and as you know, triggers will bring it to the forefront again. Some days it will be heavy, other days not so much. I am glad you are seeing nature again, it has strong healing powers, it is the best healer for me, even as I sit and watch the snow gently falling here. They say time heals all wounds; I think we know better that there will always be a scar, an ache, for the ones we love/loved. But we learn to live with it, as you are doing. Thanks for writing and sharing.Cathynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-43921862296137993322014-02-24T18:13:27.187-08:002014-02-24T18:13:27.187-08:00Very powerful words. Everything you said registere...Very powerful words. Everything you said registered with me. I sat here in tears reading your words. Completely sent back 7 months to a hot summer day. I knelt in a grassy field staring at my husbands body as the EMT worked on him. I know too much too. I still count the months and days. I can't sit straight up yet, but i'm trying to learn how build new skills to hold this new weight. One day I will enjoy life again. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03558186437828317214noreply@blogger.com