tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post934470938109899090..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : Six Degrees Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-28301013969180655022015-01-25T08:56:14.485-08:002015-01-25T08:56:14.485-08:00Kelley, I have been thinking all weekend about &qu...Kelley, I have been thinking all weekend about "old me/new me." You have again hit it exactly. I miss my old me, almost as much as I miss my husband, but am learning to live life as new me. Thanks for expressing it so well. It's all so hard! ColoDaisyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16063607855373875176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-78891974224991455342015-01-23T13:57:55.278-08:002015-01-23T13:57:55.278-08:00I can SO related to this. YES. I am so damn tired ...I can SO related to this. YES. I am so damn tired of being BOTH of those people at once. And of having my debbie downer always doing the six degrees thing. I think I have been more tired of that lately than I even realized… especially as I've made new friends where I live - younger folks who i can go out to bars with and just have SIMPLE fun with again. Only it STILL isn't simple fun. Because i have all those other aspects of me that come along for the ride. It's exhausting. And so frustrating lately. I just want to be me… the me that wasn't broken wide open my grief. The me that was just enjoying life. Then again… I'm not entirely sure i even was that person back then. Maybe that is just what I have chosen to remember her as. She was struggling with a lot of complex things too. *sigh* At least I know I am not alone. Thank you so much for this one. Love you!!Arthelihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11898065902404091173noreply@blogger.com