tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post979362288104153854..comments2024-02-21T02:19:16.755-08:00Comments on Widow's Voice: Seven Widowed Voices Sharing Love, Loss, and Hope : On This Day~Michele Neff Hernandezhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02356589209090780127noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-67134213829186096842014-11-19T08:48:51.101-08:002014-11-19T08:48:51.101-08:00It's impossible, isn't it? This grief, th...It's impossible, isn't it? This grief, this road...and yet somehow, we're still here. <br /><br />We're walking it with each other, always~<br />alisonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00031874239296682781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-15008825217442091052014-11-19T08:48:01.654-08:002014-11-19T08:48:01.654-08:00Knowing that my words are seen and heard by others...Knowing that my words are seen and heard by others on this unwelcome path, touches my heart. Reading the responses, means just as much. So thank YOU~<br />alisonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00031874239296682781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-14237063335904405312014-11-19T08:46:56.111-08:002014-11-19T08:46:56.111-08:00Every bit of me hears what you just wrote. And I ...Every bit of me hears what you just wrote. And I thank your husband for his service, and you, for yours. Chuck always used to say, when he left TDY, that it's always harder on the ones left behind. It was true then, and it is so very true now~<br />alisonAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00031874239296682781noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-77288844839836190902014-11-12T20:01:48.403-08:002014-11-12T20:01:48.403-08:00I agree with everything "Annonymous" sai...I agree with everything "Annonymous" said... I'm only six months into my journey and I'm constantly saying "What the f___ happened" that you are no longer here... It was a sudden massive stroke and he was in a hospital when it happened??? It was so severe, there was nothing that could be done... He was the love of my life and this website has been my saving grace... Allison, I relate to you and your husband 's relationship... thank you so much for your posts...I pray to get through this... but it is so hard...<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-44401863410239805822014-11-12T09:41:46.302-08:002014-11-12T09:41:46.302-08:00Your husband was one incredibly lucky guy to have ...Your husband was one incredibly lucky guy to have experienced such love from YOU, and YOU to have had such love. Monday (10th) was one year from the day my husband died. The last month I slipped in and out of the haze, confusion and deep deep sadness that had consumed the months after he passed. Some normalcy had seeped back in for awhile, then would be displaced by wavering emotions, quick to anger and crying episodes, wandering around forgetting what I was going to do next.<br />Well, I'm sure many have experienced this. There is a slight sense of relief that I've experienced the "Firsts" of holidays, birthdays, anniversaries and MAYBE they won't be met with such anticipated dread.<br />I wish you peace with hugs sent your way. <br />Sorry we are on this journey with a circle of friends we didn't set out to find. Well actually, I guess we did, we chose to find this forum for support.<br />And I turn to it every morning. <br />So THANK YOU for sharing your heart.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1268746983441346507.post-19257280292873193752014-11-12T08:33:14.110-08:002014-11-12T08:33:14.110-08:00Alison, I so feel your pain because I live with it...Alison, I so feel your pain because I live with it too. The love of my life, my everything, lies in a national cemetery among his fellow veterans, heroes and American patriots. My husband was a fighter pilot who served 20 years in the USAF and flew combat missions in Vietnam. He died unexpected beside me in the middle of the night in 2011. I will never recover from the shock and torment of my loss. I miss him with every fiber of my being. He set the bar very high and I know, in my heart, no one can ever make me so loved and cherished. The love of my life now walks with God. I miss him so much I ache 24/7.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com