Saturday, July 26, 2014

The Star of Seven

I was at an estate sale yesterday and I found this little wooden bookmark hiding away in a corner that really intrigued me. I picked it up and read on the back something about The Star of Seven Day. Further intrigued, I purchased it and brought it home to research. It turns out it is a scene depicting the story of the Tanabata Festival. And this is where it got cool. This is the annual star festival in Japan that is celebrated on the 7th day of the 7th month each year. It celebrates the meeting of the deities Orihime and Hikoboshi (represented by the stars Vega and Altair respectively). According to legend, the Milky Way separates these lovers, and they are allowed to meet only once a year on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month of the lunisolar calendar.
If you're new to the story of my late-fiance and I - I will fill you in. Mine and Andrew's initials spell STAR. And the week before we began dating, we were out star-gazing on the beach one night and we saw seven shooting stars, making seven wishes a piece. We later learned that we both wished for each other, seven times. It became a beautiful part of our story... And crazy enough our first rela date and thus anniversary was the 7th. Stars and sevens continued to show up in other ways in our time together, and they still do for me. The web address for my photography business is because I couldn't think of anything better for it to be named since my photography is so deeply influenced by our story. In the entryway of the hospital where my first solo photo show was displayed, there were seven large blue stars hanging. Lots of things like this happen all the time for me now. So now when I see stars, particularly in combination with the number seven, I know someone is trying to get my attention.
There's no doubt in my mind that this bookmark - which I learned was likely brought home from Japan by the husband after WWII for his wife - was meant for me to find. It is our story - two stars, a galaxy apart. Maybe it was just a hello from afar. Or maybe, on the 7th day of the 7th month every year, we too are brought closer together like in this legend. I also can't deny that, since he died, I often get very clear signs that revolve around the direction I should go or decisions I should make in relation to my art. Which makes this finding especially cool...
While at this same estate sale, I was introduced to an interior designer who had seen my solo photo exhibit at the hospital and offered me a really exciting next opportunity for showing my work this fall. We hadn't said two sentences to each other before he was offering to show my work in his space. I was so taken back, and so honored that someone would offer such a thing so immediately to me based on the work of mine that he had already seen. For this bookmark to be right in the same space as where I met this person - I dunno, I like to believe in that sort of thing. And I like to believe I was brought there to find both the bookmark and the person today - and it was just one more sign that I'm going in the right direction.


  1. I love this!! What a beautiful sign :)

  2. I was married on July 7, 1977. Because it was a Thursday night, we chose 7 pm. I think this number speaks to us...

    1. Hello, u married in 77.. Longtime like me 74..we r Gona make it... Someway.. Somehow..u had Gods number in yr dates..7s..

  3. dear Sarah,

    what a beautiful and meaningful story of how "7" has been so phenomenally persistent in it's appearances in yours and Andrews story. I am so happy for you, for these wonderful confluences that continue to occur. "7" has also been a forceful presence in my life, and the life I shared with my darling Hugh; so I will pay more attention to the 7th day of the 7th month each year, and to the story of Vega and Altair. thank you so much for sharing this!

    much love,


  4. 7 is a big part of life for me also, I was married on 7/7/79, both of our birthdays were also on the 7th of April and October. I'm grateful that my husband didn't die on the 7th though. Thanks for posting this, 7 is a lucky number.

  5. Actually it is a Chinese folklore tale, we called it "The Weaver Girl and the Cowherd". Once a year, on the 7th day of the 7th lunar month and it become the Chinese Valentine's Day. It is a sad story but did provides a very romantic explanation on the formation of the Milky Way.

  6. 7 was Ron's favorite number and has been mine since before I knew him. :)

    Oh, and "We later learned that we both wished for each other, seven times." Just... <3